Relationships are not easy. Marriages are even more difficult because in the contemporary society, divorce has become an everyday norm. There are not enough examples of what an ideal marriage should look like. The intentions that people get into marriage with are always so good, but with time, other issues crop up and people begin forgetting the reasons why they got married. They forget to put adequate time into the marriage. Husbands, instead of creating some happy times with their wives at home, engage in activities outside their marriages that only contribute to aggravating the negatives that are already haunting the marriage.
Everyone should put it in mind that the number one happiness that can be found in a relationship is love. Problems in the marriage with the wife should not mean that love is lost, but only that a solution can be sort for every distasteful issue that crops up. The important thing a husband should do in order to start off a make up with their wife is learning to be open. This can lead to learning new ways of making up. Openness also means being truthful about the issues that are creating the split between the two of you.
Women are not as difficult to understand as some people have so often put it. They are emotional animals and simple things really touch them. Thinking ahead is a basic step to making up with your wife. This means planning something that you know she will enjoy. It does not have to be anything ridiculously expensive or outdone. Showing that you appreciate and respect her will work wonders. For example, making the bed or even washing the dishes could open the way for a make-up. Put some thoughts of why you love her on paper and give it to her as a love letter.
Do not put any blame anywhere when there is a fight. Focus on the reasons why the argument or fight emanated and how it can be sorted. Afterwards, you could buy your wife some flowers and say a simple love. Compliment her on her cooking, appreciate her company, whisper words of sweet nothings into her ear and just say thank you for all that she does for you. These are simple things that can help you find your way to a most beautiful make up.